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		<title>Exploring the Potentials of Computer-mediated Communication</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has often been said that computer-mediated communication alters the social norms governing conversation by removing elements of emotion and social control. At the same time, it has also been understood, that this mode of communication provides the possibility of more equal participation by obscuring the visual and verbal distinctions of status that give high-ranking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has often been said that computer-mediated communication alters the social norms governing conversation by removing elements of emotion and social control. At the same time, it has also been understood, that this mode of communication provides the possibility of more equal participation by obscuring the visual and verbal distinctions of status that give high-ranking or aggressive people an advantage in face-to-face speech.</p>
<p>There are times when less interpersonal or socio-emotional communication could be beneficial: to facilitate brainstorming, to encourage equal participation, or for criticism blind to status. In this sense, if computer-mediated communication fosters less personal interaction than the unmediated communication, it might be advantageous. In fact, through the specification of factors conducive to more interpersonal computer-mediated communication, methods for purposefully impersonalizing interaction via computer-mediated communication have been suggested. Socio-technical circumstances may be contrived, including reduced periods for discussion, anonymous interaction, obviated floor-sharing or turn-taking procedures, and ad-hoc teams with no anticipation of future interaction, all of which seem to contribute to a stronger task focus and potentially more productive work.</p>
<p>The inherence of impersonalizing effects in computer-mediated communication has been doubted upon later examination. For example, the initial absence and subsequent reconstruction of social context is a fundamental that chat enthusiasts use to build their subculture. Without facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, clothing, shared physical environment, or any other contextual cues that signal the physical presence of participants in a social group, chat participants use words alone to reconstruct contexts in their own image as meta-descriptions to the running dialogue. These virtual actions are typographically set apart from words meant as a straight dialogue. These actions are the same as &#8220;poses&#8221; or &#8220;emoting&#8221;, and serve a similar purpose. They add a modifier to the strict definitions of words, indicating intentions, mood, or other contextual cues.</p>
<p>Participants in computer-mediated communication in pairs and group—even those who have never met before—use cues available to them to manage relational development in normal (or perhaps even supernormal) fashion. The circumstances of their media may add some hitherto unexplored dimensions but not an enduring dampening of interpersonal affect. In short, the negative effects of computer-based communication—loss of face-to-face contact and a reduction in normative social control—are balanced by the possibilities for social integration in communities formed around electronic networks.</p>
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<p>Recent surveys have revealed a great deal of social interaction in some computer conferences and bulletin board systems. Several case studies show the development of numerous personal relationships and socio-emotional behavior in computer-mediated communication. Consequently, some recent writings have summarily dismissed the cues-filtered-out theories and the results behind them as research artifacts.</p>
<p>Why did computer-mediated communication appear impersonal in some research and not elsewhere, and what accounts for the difference? Can we predict and control these impersonal outcomes within computer-mediated communication at such times as would be useful? One answer to the first question is that the medium alone is not an adequate predictor of interpersonal tone. Researchers have found that by extending the time span of studies comparing computer-mediated communication with face-to-face conversations, the relational patterns in the different settings become more similar. This indicates that the critical difference between computer-mediated communication and face-to-face conversations lies in the rate of message exchange, and that, given time, computer-mediated communication participants develop interpersonal relationships closely matching those found in face-to-face situations.</p>
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<p>Context, in this view, is not dependent upon the physical co-presence of other people but is mainly social. Users learn to adapt their verbal behavior to the restrictions of the textual medium; over time, such interaction may adapt to more customary interpersonal levels. Context constantly supplies actors with values, goals, and projects which orient them in shaping self-images, referring to particular physical or ideal groups, choosing a course of action in everyday situations. It is not enough to be physically alone in a room to be outside the social context. Social context not only surrounds people but also resides within them as an essential part of their very identity.</p>
<p>It is quite obvious that many of the social cues occurring in face-to-face conversation are missing in computer-mediated communication, but this does not mean that social context is absent. Social context is present in computer-mediated communication because powerful social processes are at work in it: categorization of the self, of other people, of one&#8217;s reference group, of the current situation. People are connected by what they know of the current social situation and by what they guess about the interpretation that other actors give of it. They are connected also by what they know about their own purposes, what they can guess about other people&#8217;s intentions, and by social norms governing their interaction and making it mutually understandable.</p>
<p>Computer-mediated communication does not lack social context, provided we know where to look for it, that is, in the normative social processes. Cultural social context, rather that physical co-presence itself, makes possible everyday communication, cooperation, and the very existence of complex organizations, which are made more of abstract relationships of power, authority, and coordination governing actors&#8217; strategies, alliances, and negotiation than face-to-face interactions. Thus, conflict can be anticipated and managed and differences between actors come to be negotiated.</p>
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<p> The poverty of the interpersonal relational framework in computer-mediated communication may, under certain conditions, even amplify the influence of the normative aspects of the context resulting from processes of membership and identification. Combinations of media attributes, social phenomena, and social-psychological processes may lead to computer-mediated communication becoming &#8220;hyper-personal,&#8221; that is, actually exceeding face-to-face communication in certain interpersonal aspects.</p>
<p>In computer-mediated communication, the influence of social context may be even stronger than in face-to-face conversation, depending upon which aspects of personal and social identity are made salient by the specific situation. This would also explain the strong group polarization found in computer-mediated communication—a typical effect of social influence—which is surprisingly high precisely in decision-making processes within networked groups. Social contexts may function even more strongly on the basis of pure symbols of power, status, authority, and so on, when these social cues are not mitigated by interpersonal signals such as a friendly expression, an irritated tone, or a casual gesture betraying tiredness. Whereas behavioral confirmation has important effects in face-to-face communication, they seem to be magnified in minimal-cue interaction.</p>
<p>A fully integrated view of computer-mediated communication takes into account the sender, receiver, channel, and feedback as each contributes to hyper-personal interaction in computer-mediated communication. At the level of the sender, computer-mediated communication partners may select and express communication behaviors that are more stereotypically desirable in achieving their social goals and transmit messages free of the noise that otherwise comes with unintended appearance or behavior features. At the other end, the receiver takes in these stylized messages, construct idealized images of the partner and the relationship, and, through reciprocation, confirms them.</p>
<p>These processes may be further enhanced when the minimal-cue interaction is also asynchronous; freed from communicating in real time, users are released from the pressure to meet and the stress of including both task and social issues in limited time intervals typically allowed in face-to-face interaction. These effects also enhance the normal impression management processes among work teams and organizational associates. In fact, in the research field of computer-mediated cooperative work, the ambition is to create a group process that is actually better than face-to-face group communications.</p>
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<p> Perhaps an even more radical approach to the potential transcendence of communication made possible by new technologies is that of post-symbolic communication. In this view, the codes of interpersonal communication are very limited, compared to what may soon be possible. Participants in face-to-face conversation are limited to the codes they can use to communicate and transfer information from one person to another—language, gestures, and so on. In virtual reality—as opposed to purely textual (or even audiovisual) modes of communication—all those codes are retained, but there is the potential for adding quite a few codes for signaling mood and meaning.</p>
<p>In virtual reality many things are potentially changing at a very, very rapid rate. All kinds of codes can be devised. But what is interesting is that there is something even beyond the ability to have a flexibility of creating codes. There is also the ability of communicating without codes. In the physical world, the most fundamental fact of life</p>
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		<title>Cool Tech Gadgets From 2010 That You Don&#8217;t Own But Wish You Did!</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of the things that fascinated folks all though history are the new gadgets and tools that are introduced into the market. These gizmos often feature the latest in technologies in that period and this makes them more coveted by folks. This is formed more clear recently where the level of technology is simply so wonderful that new tech gadgets are coming out that were never even imagined by folk years ago. </p>
<p>However , even though most of us would like to have the very best of what these contraptions can offer, many are still holding out and do not get around to purchasing these tech gadgets. One of the most important reasons is money restrictions, especially in this current industrial eventuality the world is facing. Others do plan to purchase one but would finally forget to do it because of their hectic schedules or responsibilities. </p>
<p>A different reason why folk do not get to buy these tech gadgets is they are oblivious of how helpful these gizmos can be or they do not know that these devices exist. The following will try and remedy this situation by showing folks a guide on the right way to buy these amazing tech gadgets and eventually own these cool tech gadgets that they do not have but wished they did. </p>
<p>Buying Tech Gadgets </p>
<p>The first thing to do before purchasing one of those cool tech gadgets is for you to grasp where and how to look for them. The first destination is to go surfing and check for the tech gadgets featured in numerous web sites like Engadget, Gizmodo, GeekAlerts and a number of other tech-related sites. You may check social media networks like YouTube and Facebook for products that are featured in videos or pages. </p>
<p>When you&#8217;ve identified which widget teases your fancy and would be appropriate for your needs, check them out if their essentially good by reading consumer reviews, articles and videos about them. You can also join tech forums and ask the experts or prior users the benefits and disadvantages of owning a particular widget. </p>
<p>After you&#8217;ve decided which tech contraption you want to buy you can search in both net stores and specialist stores for these products. However , logging on will show you where you can get the least expensive units available, particularly if you are hunting for the more costly options like high definition video cameras. </p>
<p>Commended Tech Gadgets from 2010 </p>
<p>Now you know the way to find these cool widgets, the following tech gadgets from 2010 comes strongly recommended. Most or all of these gadgets would surely be in your wish list but was not able procure one due to one or more of the reasons listed earlier. </p>
<p>* Android Tablet these are tablet computers using the Android OS from Google and are packed with all the features and functions of a private computer but in a sleek, compact and highly transportable package. Top of the range branded versions of these devices can fetch up to 0 in the market but there are low cost versions coming from Chinese manufacturers you can buy for only 0. </p>
<p>* Android Android phone smart phones are a selection of the most up to date tech gadgets in the market right now and versions operating under the Android platform are slowly dominating the market right now. Top-end items are sold at over 0 but cheaper versions are currently available at costs below 0 and will shortly reach 0 or below. </p>
<p>* Digital camera the advent of digicams have revolutionized photography afresh and nearly everybody wants to have one and take stills which they can easily share on social networks. Dependent on the kind of camera, from basic point-and-click units to the higher end SLRs, costs can go from as low as 0 to as high as 00. Less expensive versions are also coming out that would even cost below  </p>
<p>* HD camera high-definition is the in thing today and this is obvious with the requirement for HD camcorders and camcorders that would capture videos in superb hi-def in widgets that can be handled easily with a single hand. Costs can range all the way from as low as  to as high as about a thousand dependent on camera resolution and extra features and functions. </p>
<p>* Spy Camera folks might not know it but the cool spy contraptions they only see in the movies are now made available and cheap with costs starting from as low as  to as high as couple of hundred dependent on the brand and inclusive accessories. </p>
<p>* Wireless Camera Set wireless cameras give users a couple of potential applications from providing security to home and offices or for surveillance and monitoring purposes. These camera sets can be acquired from below  to as high as about a thousand dependent on the inclusive accessories, the resolution of the camera itself, and the brand.</p>
<p>* Motor DVD car DVD players are very good accessories to have in your car which can give you and your passengers fantastic music and multi-media entertainment while on the road. Low cost models from abroad can fetch below  while the more dear branded ones have prices that will reach up to 0 dependent on the functions, additional features and the brand. </p>
<p>* Movable HDD cartable external disc drives are great complements for netbooks or pills where you can store all your files and folders. These cartable drives have capacities starting from a couple of hundred gigabytes to the bigger ones already in the shocking terrabyte levels. Prizes can go below  to as high as 2 hundred greenbacks dependent on the memory capacity and the brand. </p>
<p>* DVB-T TV movable DVB-T TV modules allow you to watch digital TV even while on the go. Some of these units are stand alone consoles while others are incorporated with DVD players and even GPS systems. Low cost models can be bought below  while higher end models would fetch prize tags over 0. </p>
<p>* Transportable GPS these GPS navigation systems will help you get to your destination as quickly and as safely as practicable and would even lead you each step of the way. This is the reason why transportable GPS units are some examples of the swiftest selling items in tech-related stores nowadays , now that low-cost versions with prices below 0 are currently available as alternative option to the higher end branded units that are costs at a couple of hundred dollars. </p>
<p>Everybody has their wish list and more so when it comes to tech gadgets. These gizmos can actually make a contribution in your life like the capacity to bring your work with you anywhere you go or even while on the move using pills and smartphones, or increase security in your houses and enterprises using wireless cameras or even spy cameras. Now you know that it is possible to own these things, start your search now and pick one among these contraptions that you probably don&#8217;t own yet but surely wish that you probably did.</p>
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<p>The BlackBerry has evolved a lot lately, but the basic features remained the same &#8211; display screen, track-wheel, QWERTY keyboard, Escape button. The QWERTY keyboard is a feature that RIM implemented so that the BlackBerry user would not be forced to learn new typing. The QWERTY keyboard imitates a PC&#8217;s keyboard, facilitating typing a whole lot. The most efficient way to type on BlackBerry QWERTY keyboard is using two thumbs.</p>
<p>A BlackBerry will always provide quality and reliability for both hardware and software devices. When it comes to power consumption, this phone was highly efficient, you can use it for two weeks without considering recharging. But with the most recent technologies, including high-resolution screens, power efficiency has decreased, but there are some tips you can consider to prolong the life of the battery, especially when you are traveling, tips like reducing back-light amount and timeout, bulking up your power, or turning off devices you don&#8217;t need at the moment.</p>
<p>Memory management is a very important pattern when purchasing a BlackBerry. Lots of people don&#8217;t take into consideration this issue. The problem with the phone memory is that it never grows. Installing more and more applications, the memory goes down and you can risk running out of memory. Fortunately, The BlackBerry has a very efficient memory management by discovering which data is not important, cleaning up the room. The operating system tells the browser when the memory is dangerously close to the limit and it automatically deletes the cache. This process is also available for Messaging, as read or spam mails are automatically deleted.</p>
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<p>The experts on this kind of matter is no-other than the best kind of <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.searchengineoptimization.com/" target="_blank">search engine optimization</a>, and it has been already proven by the many people today.  So, you can ensure that with this kind of expert there is a big possibility that your website will have a chance to make it to the top of your desire via the major search engine such as Bing, Yahoo and Google.</p>
<p>Now, you will be very much thankful for having this kind of services that truly matters to the concern of the many for better ranking of websites today.</p>
<p>With search engine optimization, there is no doubt that one’s website can be in its best ranking in their own way in making it to the top that really matters to your need today.  So, you better trust their worth and you can ensure of only the best that really matters to your need today.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When people have problem with their finance and cannot get help from their family or friends, one of their options is getting a loan. There are many kinds of loan that available for them. They can choose the loan that suits their needs and condition. If they face emergency situation and they need instant money, payday loan is the perfect choice. They can really enjoy many benefits from this kind of loan. With payday loan, it is possible for them to get the money within a day.</p>
<p>Payday loan offers easy requirements and fast process. That is the reason why many people choose to get this loan. They only need to fulfill the basic requirements, apply for the loan and wait for the approval from the lender. There will be no credit check, so people don’t have to worry if they have bad credit history or no credit card at all. The whole process can be done online and totally paperless. With all of the easiness, they can get this loan anytime they need. There are many lenders that offer payday loan. One of the payday loans that can be chose is <a href="http://www.ms-payday-loans.com/" target="_blank">mspaydayloans</a>.</p>
<p>The most important thing for people is to have complete information before deciding to get the loan. People should be aware that payday loan is a short term loan. It means they have short time period for the repayment process. It is one of the factors that must be considered. By knowing the complete information, they can enhance the benefits and avoid any problem.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Applying a conventional loan from the bank could be a frustrating process for certain people since they must prepare many documents before the application is approved. In this internet era we have other choice to get additional cash which more simple in process and more fast in time. Yes, the quick payday loans are very [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Applying a conventional loan from the bank could be a frustrating process for certain people since they must prepare many documents before the application is approved. In this internet era we have other choice to get additional cash which more simple in process and more fast in time. Yes, the quick payday loans are very popular in the internet since many people are frustrating to get new loan or additional loan from the conventional bank.</p>
<p>Similar to conventional bank, the lenders of the <a href="http://www.pacificadvance.com/" target="_blank">quick payday loans</a> service also has minimum requirement must be fulfilled by the applicants before their application processed. First, at least the applicant must be 18 years old when submitting the quick payday loan application form. Second, the applicant have permanent job and have personal income minimum US$ 1000 per month or US$ 800 per month in social security or other benefits income. Third, the applicants must have a bank account to receive the cash that requested. If we have all of requirements, we are pre-approved and we can continue to the next process.</p>
<p>To fill the online form of the quick payday loans service we can connect to the internet and visit the official website. After we are finished with the application form, we can submit the application directly through the internet and wait for a phone call from the lenders. Usually the money that requested will be transferred within the same day of approval so it is very easy to get additional cash for many purposes and we can fill the application form today.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gadgets are one of the modern term of the 21st century. used to define a number of electronic business accessories. A gadget is a small technological device that has a particular function, but is often thought of as a innovation. Gadgets are always considered to be more unusually or cleverly designed than normal technological objects [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gadgets are one of the modern term of the 21st century. used to define a number of electronic business accessories. A gadget is a small technological device that has a particular function, but is often thought of as a innovation. Gadgets are always considered to be more unusually or cleverly designed than normal technological objects at the time of their invention. Gadgets are sometimes also referred to as gizmos. Gadgets belong to a new category of mini-applications especially designed for providing all the necessary information, important lookup and of course, enhance an application or service for the personal or home use.</p>
<p>iPod &#8211; Music in your pocket</p>
<p><strong>Evolution of Gadgets</strong><br />The origins of the word &#8220;gadget&#8221; trace back to the 19th century. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, there is anecdotal evidence for the use of &#8220;gadget&#8221; as a placeholder name for a technical item whose precise name one can&#8217;t remember since the 1850s. Earlier examples of Gadgets are a sailor boy’s log of a voyage out and home in a China tea-clipper. A widely circulated story holds that the word gadget was &#8220;invented&#8221; when Gaget, Gauthier &amp; Cie, the company behind the repoussé construction of the Statue of Liberty (1886), made a small-scale version of the monument and named it after their firm.</p>
<p>Laptop means Mobile Pc</p>
<p><strong>Types of Gadgets</strong><br />* Mechanical gadgets<br />Clocks, bicycles, and thermometers are amongst the very large number of gadgets that are mechanical and also very popular. The invention of mechanical gadgets though is based more on innovation from the inventor rather than his education.</p>
<p>* Electronic gadgets<br />Electronic gadgets are based on transistors and integrated circuits. Unlike the mechanical gadgets one needs a source of electric power to use it. The most common electronic gadgets include transistor radio, television, cell phones and the quartz watch.</p>
<p>* Programmable gadgets<br />Most of the modern gadgets belong to this category.</p>
<p>* Application gadgets<br />Computer programs that provide services without needing an independent application to be launched for each one, but instead run in an environment that manages multiple gadgets. There are several implementations based on existing software development techniques, like JavaScript, form input, and various images.</p>
<p>Gadgets &#8211; New Gizmos of 21st Century</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Currently the people have no time for relaxation as they are becomes very busy in their working schedule. In this busy schedule they also face lots of troubles and stress. As the technology is rising day by day every person wish to acquire the best facilities for their homes, the swim spa is also one of them. Installing the swim spa in garden or backyard is the dream of each person. But the some people are also available who want to install swimming pool in their own home for relaxation and comfort but are unable to have it due to space and cost constraints. For such people swim spa is better option. A <a href="http://choosehottubsdirect.com/hot-tubs/special-hot-tub-spa/swim-spa-pools-and-hot-tubs-like-dimension-one-spas.html">swim spa</a> can be used for swimming, water exercise such as such as <a href="http://www2.latech.edu/%7Esmu004/dir/Swim_Spa_Prices.html">aqua jogging</a>, swimming activity or orientated to relax. It is the effective way to remove stress on mind and relax at home. With the health benefits it also helpful to make you away from deceases.</p>
<p>Definitely running and joining fitness centers like gym is not effective as such the swimming. So why you waste your time and money by going in fitness centers when these all benefits you get from swimming at home.  We all know swimming is one of the most effective exercises, you can not only reduce your fats by less effort but also and it gives movement to the maximum number of muscles in the body.</p>
<p>You will not find another thing better than swim spa which provide the health benefits, remove stress through entertainment. Just imagine if you are watching T.V, it only entertains you and if you try to go for morning walk this only helpful to provides the health benefits. But <a href="http://choosehottubsdirect.com/">swim spa</a> is the big sources of relaxation which not only entertains you but also provides the health benefits. So why not go for Swimming pools where you may get several benefits in single pool.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do People Live Without Cell Phones? According to the Federal Communications Commission (FCC), nearly 85 percent of adult Americans own cell phones. Considering that cell phones really only became available for widespread public use about 20 years ago, that figure is quite astonishing. The FCC states that cell phone usage caught on faster than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>        How do People Live Without Cell Phones?
<p>According to the Federal Communications Commission (FCC), nearly 85 percent of adult Americans own cell phones. Considering that cell phones really only became available for widespread public use about 20 years ago, that figure is quite astonishing. The FCC states that cell phone usage caught on faster than both cable television usage and personal computers (although some believe that the usage of broadband internet service may have caught on just a bit faster). There are so many cell phones in existence that a whole new industry has been created to accommodate those that are disposed of. Companies including big carriers like Verizon and smaller private firms like Dotcells.com refurbish and sell used cell phones.</p>
<p>Still, there is a significant percentage of American adults who function without cell phones. While the very idea may seem foreign to many people, it is quite possible to live without a cell phone. It can, though, be somewhat inconvenient:</p>
<p> People who do not own cell phones must typically rely on pay phones when they are away from home or work; however, because of the overabundance of cell phones these days, many public pay phones have been removed. It can be difficult to find a pay phone at times-and, not only that, but the cost of using a pay phone has greatly increased. In the case of some emergencies, people who do not own cell phones may find it difficult to get assistance. For example, if a person&#8217;s car breaks down far from home in a rural area, getting help without a cell phone could prove to be rather challenging. (This is why some people at least carry 911 cell phones, which are typically used cell phones-such as used Sprint cell phones or used AT&amp;T cell phones&#8211;that have been refurbished so as to be able to only dial out for emergency reasons.) People who do not own cell phones may, at times, experience difficulty in communication with friends and family members. Because it is likely that friends and family members do own cell phones, being the &#8216;odd duck&#8217; who does not own one may cause a person to be left out at times.
<p>Most of the people who do not own cell phones fit into certain demographics. They may be elderly people who are unwilling to learn about new types of technology or who are simply unable to manipulate the increasingly small size of cell phones. Or, they may be less educated people who are unable to master the technology of cell phone usage. Lastly, they may be people who are unable to afford cell phones and/or cell phone contracts.</p>
<p>For those who are unable to afford cell phones, used cell phones may be an answer. Purchasing used Sprint cell phones, used AT&amp;T cell phones, used Verizon cell phones, or even used Blackberry cell phones can be quite inexpensive. DotCells.com sells refurbished phones individually or in bulk with some working phones priced under .00. Or, cheap Verizon cell phones can be found as well.</p>
<p>There is also a small percentage of people who simply do not want cell phones. These people tend to resent how cell phones seem to control some people&#8217;s lives and how cell phones seem to be all-important to many people. These non-owners enjoy the fact that they cannot be contacted at any time and at any place-in fact, they relish the idea of being out of contact at times. For these people, becoming dependent upon a cell phone would be very scary, indeed.</p>
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<p>Learn more about used verizon cell phones and used at&amp;t cell phones at DotCells.com</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Irene Becker, CCTA Irene Becker is President of Just Coach It, a professional coaching firm specializing in effective living, leading and communicating at the speed of change. Please do not hesitate to contact Irene at irene@justcoachit.com, or to visit Just Coach It on the web http://www.allhottips.com First and foremost effective communication is essential to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> By Irene Becker, CCTA Irene Becker is President of Just Coach It, a professional coaching firm specializing in effective living, leading and communicating at the speed of change. Please do not hesitate to contact Irene at irene@justcoachit.com, or to visit Just Coach It on the web http://www.allhottips.com First and foremost effective communication is essential to not only organizational success, but success in one’s personal life. Effective communication promotes interpersonal understanding and problem solving. I was hired to first do personal coaching with focus to be determined by each core team member, and the mandate changed to dealing the communication skills of each core team member and areas of communication that they wanted to improve. While we live in what has been deemed the information age, the preponderance of advertising, media and instruments of communication has perhaps dealing with staggering amounts of communication to absorb and less and less time to effectively use and improve our communication skills. Communication can not be measured by the amount of communication that is exchanged, but by how many messages are received, understood. Clear communication is key as we all filter verbal information through what we want to hear and are expecting to hear. It is important to always verify what the receiver of one’s message understands the message to be and to move away from personalizing questions that may arise, and focus on clarifying what one wants to communicate. Here are two major communication skills areas and three areas of speaking and listening that are key to effective communication. I) SPEAKING SKILLS A. Slowing down our though processes to understand the message B. Making our self understood C. Testing our conclusions about what is being communicated II) LISTENING SKILLS D. Listening constructively E. Getting the essence of the communication F. Exploring any disagreement that may arise as a result of the communication Let’s take a closer look at what makes good speaking and listening happen! A. SLOWING DOWN OUR THOUGHT PROCESS Slowing down our thought process is key to clearly expressing our opinion. Thought is a really rapid process. Our minds are capable of receiving, evaluating, interpreting and classifying thousands of bits of information simultaneously. Most of the mental digestion of our communication takes place unconsciously. As such while we are very aware of the results of our communication, we are not usually aware of the process. It is really important to delivery clear messages to the receiver of our communication. If we do not make sure that we are delivering both a clear message and also a reason for this message the receiver may not get what we are trying to say. Slowing down our thought process is key to clearly expressing our opinion because in order to clearly transmit our message the receiver must understand not only the conclusion we are stating but how we arrived at the conclusion. If we want our thought processes to be understandable to the receiver it is very important that we explain the basis for our message. B. MAKING OUR SELF UNDERSTOOD While making oneself understood in English to another English speaker sounds really easy it is not. While we all speak the same language the words that we use can have different meanings or none at all the receiver of our communication. We all know that it is important to clarify the meaning of technical terms to an outsider; we often forget that it is of equal import to make sure that the receiver understands the meaning behind our words. In the best of communication checking the message received is always a good idea because it allows us to make sure that the message that we are sending is the one that is received. While the person we are communicating may be listening they must also be hearing our meaning and not what they hear through their personal psychological, sociological filters. Our usage of receiver friendly vocabulary is also key because if the receiver does not consider the words we are saying to be of importance, of the vocabulary we are using does not speak to them personally we will lose their interest and attention. We have to always make sure that when transmitting information we are using words, phrases, images and metaphors that the receiver is accustomed to and that we are always checking that the receiver is following what we are saying, not what they are hearing us to say. We have to be responsible for the effectiveness of our communication and it starts with speaking the language of the receiver and making sure that what we are saying is clearly understood. C. TESTING CONCLUSIONS Encouraging others to ask questions about our conclusions does not weaken our communication effectiveness but rather strengthens the communication rapport between sender and receiver. Letting others in on the reasons behind our conclusions, encouraging them to ask questions and seeking clarification is critical to great communication. Each time we express our opinion there is an opportunity to also test what we are saying with the questions or reservations that the receiver may express. The more questions that arise, the better our conclusions will be. While encouraging the receiver of our communication to question what we are saying does not reflect the old business communication model, it is very reflective of a new paradigm, a flat versus hierarchical model of work and of communication. Engagement is key to our work, to our communication and certainly to the synergy of a team. Engagement cannot be accomplished without transparency in communication, which includes the opportunity to discuss points and conclusions. Discussing points on their merits rather than pushing a particular point of view can be greatly productive to team communication as if facilitates group engagement and synergy. It sets up a group dynamic that moves away from adopting the solution of the boss or team leader, but rather letting go of competition and embracing a team spirit that will give birth to the best solution coming forward. Also, this type of open discussing and testing of conclusions initiates team dialogue, open team dialogue that will serve to help the team reach solutions that would not have been possible by just taking the opinions of a single member of the group. D. UNDERSTANDING OTHERS Listening is not the same as hearing. Hearing means that we are physically receiving communication. In order to truly understand what a person is saying we need to have a clear picture of what the sender truly wants to convey to us. Communication is based on rapport, and rapport cannot be developed if we receive the sender’s message with a blank show of interest, a nodding head or a neutral face. The sender wants to be understood and in order to understand the sender we need to listen carefully and without judgment or drawing premature conclusions. In order to listen effectively we have to take pause and eliminate the thoughts we have that are distracting us from what the sender is saying. We will be able to understand the sender better if we not only focus on what they are saying but their tone and body language. Improving listening skills is one of the most important communication skills because in listening attentively and well we are enhancing both our ability to receive a message and also to respond appropriately and to continue to develop rapport with the sender. It means making sure that you listen without judgment, that you are a positive, recipient of the message and that you show the sender that what they are saying is important by focusing on them and also reformulating what they have said in our own words. If you do not have time to listen or to focus, it is better to postpone the conversation for a better time than to pretend that you are paying attention. E. GETTING TO THE ESSENCE While it is really important to ask questions of the sender to clarify their message, it is of equal import to be careful how we ask questions. No one likes to be grilled, interrogated, or examined with an overly critical and demanding eye. A calm but warm tone of voice, focus on the issues, and an apparent desire to understand what the sender is saying rather than judging or criticizing the message is key. Open ended questions are tools for clarifying the sender’s message as the elicit communication flow and allow the party you are asking the question of to remain relaxed, open and to see that you do not want to dominate or castigate, but rather to communicate. F. EXPLORING DISAGREEMENTS If disagreements are handled properly they can be a really important resource of information for any team. If handled properly they can be a source of new ideas, innovative solutions and greater rapport. Disagreements should never be ignored and every attempt should be made to explore disagreements with carefrontation rather than exacerbating misunderstanding or conflict. Disagreements can only be addressed when each party to the disagreement understands clearly what is causing the disagreement. Sometimes different people have different opinions, other times they start off with different information or interpretations. Often the disagreement is not about the issue at all but the manner in which a message was communicated or poorly expressed. Exploring disagreement means stepping away from judgment, from criticism and just focusing with the sender of the message on what caused the disagreement and why. The first step is always to determine the cause of the disagreement, clarify meanings of the words used and go through each step of the reasoning process. Exploring disagreements constructively is never about starting a blame game, never about challenging others, getting overly emotional or becoming critical and condescending. Disagreement can cement relationships, uncover new solutions and help both parties to learn and grow. While no one likes to</p>
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